Blessed

Everyday I walk down to school its a daily routine and its not a long walk about5-8mins or so. As I walk alone down the road,from the minute I lock my flat door I pray till I get to the school gate. Simple day to day prayers giving thanks and asking for more blessings,guidance,wisdom and protection...well you know what I'm talking about.

Around the corner from my place there's always a young man about 17-19years of age(I think) and every time I pass by his always working on some form of hard labor such as:loading sand or bricks onto he's wheelbarrow and into the yard where he works.This young man stares at me straight into my eyes ALL THE TIME.Not that he wants to take anything away from me(I hope) and its also not that weird "I want you look" type of look.So I always make it a point to greet him cause I mean what else do you do when someone stares at you like that???.Sometimes he responds in a low voice ,just a simple "hello"but today he didn't.Then it hit me,maybe this young man is an angel sent from God.

Maybe he was sent to help remind me of how fortunate I am and that I cannot waste all that God has blessed me with. Every morning I walk down to a university where as he is working in the freezing cold, I've got warm clothes on and we'll he just has the same small size jersey and that's most probably the warmest thing he has in his closet this winter.This young fello has helped me to view my opportunities as a blessing because like myself and all the other students living in my complex this little man also has dreams(maybe even bigger than those that we carry in our souls) but he just doesn't have the opportunities in terms of funds.Even though he may not say much but a simple hello ,he has been a blessing in my life and I see it as a challenge to myself to atleast bless him in return(maybe I should give him my sweaters and trackpants on Monday or maybe even simple breakfast and lunch once in a while) maybe I should do that hey!!! Who knows maybe with my degree I could be working for him one day in he's company.Which is another lesson,don't look down on the less fortunate because tomorrow they could be a blessing in your life! You never know what tomorrow holds! Ke mo lefatseeng mo' kou se mhlabeni la,impilo iza jika broer wami.
So lesson number
1.Pray for blessings and they will be granted.
2.Give thanks.
3.Show appreciation by touching the lives of those around you.
4.Share your blessings.
5.Don't look down on others.
I'm not trying to act all holy holy but remember this: you are not here by chance,you are destined for greatness we are all here to fulfill our God given purpose and to bless and become blessing to others.

Keep this in your hearts' he loves you and has placed you on this earth not to suffer but to prosper. In philipians 4:19 he promised to supply all or needs and in 2Peter 5:7 he said that we should cast all our needs on him! P.ray U.ntil S.omething H.appens God works in many ways,it may not be today and yes he takes time but he's timing is always right.
I'll be praying for you

Like a hooker, just smarter

Brazilian weaves,holidays,the flashy clothes,VIP treatment at clubs,endless supplies of food and the list goes on.When young hopeful girls leave home with the intention to study yet end up on the wrong track.These girls have started a trend that has left them degraded and worthless at the end of it all.

They sleep with these men and in return live this life. Their excuses are a whole list of pathetic reasoning such as" my parents can't afford to give me this life so these men are more than willing to do so,why not".Honestly ladies what happened to loving and respecting yourself!what happened to paying your own bill? What happened to independence and pride? Taking care of yourself before allowing anyone else to do so!These men are OLD! FATHERS! HUSBANDS ranging from the ages of 28 and above,taking advantage of naïve girls. Infact I could call this daylight prostitution. Sexual activities with these men could lead to contracting STD's.The fact that they could get impregnated by these men and have to go back home! What do you say to your mother? That the father of your unborn baby is a 35year married Nigerian man? WOW! The lack of dignity and the loss of values!

I remember my mom telling me that there are 3things a girl can bring back home from varsity ,a degree, a baby or HIV/Aids...that time wasted can never be regained,and its so true...I'm not judging you! I'm not belittling you or trying to make you feel worthless but the life your pushing is disgusting and it clearly shows that you don't take pride in yourselves as women! Hard work,prayer,ambition and goals could give you this life,instead of chasing men chase dreams,instead of opening your legs open your books and switch on your brains,instead of spending dirty money make your own.

Remember this: being a whore and sleeping your way up may get you to the top but it won't keep you there for long!

My wedding song' "Adorn"

"Adorn"

These lips
Can't wait to taste your skin baby
No, no
And these eyes, yeah
Can't wait to see your grin
Ooh ooh baby
Just let my love
Just let my love adorn you
Please baby, yeah
You gotta know
You gotta know
You know
That I adorn you
Yeah baby

Baby this fist
Will always protect ya, lady
And this mind oh,
Will never neglect you,
Yeah baby,
Oh baby
And this thang
Trying to break us down
Don't let that affect us,
No baby
You just gotta let my love
Let my love
Let my love adorn you
Ah, le-le-le-let it just adorn you
You got to know
You gotta know
Know that I adorn you
Just that babe

I... oh oh
Let my love adorn you baby
Don't you ever
Don't you let nobody tell you different baby
I'll always adorn you
You gotta know now
You got to know know know
Now yeah...

ON TOP of the game

Hello there lovers and friends.Well all those that know ME on a personal level know that I'm all for educated successful people who live the lavish life. I'm all for the money! The clothes the fast cars ,jets and the boats! Breakfast on the beach and dinner in paris type of thing! My kids will be fed with diamond encrusted spoons!that's my life...yes a few more years of pushing and I'll be there(God willingly) TO THE TOP...the bottom is too crowded.


Ok ok ok well this post is actually about Melody Motha Molale this here is the epitome of it all! A lady in her mid 20's, A Joburger,though I hear she grew up in Witbank and also went to Liberty Christian College(where I matriculated) WITBANK STAND UP!I always tell my girls that this lady right here is living my life and I want it back when I'm 25*flicks her weave* she's a university graduate (shout out to UJ)yes shout out to all those with qualifications behind them, I RESPECT YOU!


Mel's a fashion forward trend setter of note(check her blog "for fashion freaks" ) A wife and well she's thee IT GIRL in my books!!! Its not everyday where you find such a highly blessed lady that's a humble sweetheart .You won't find Mel on the front page of your Sunday papers or on TV attempting to be a celebrity or what you happen to call "socialites" NO_I personally think some people should relax and actually be in the lam light for verified good reason such as TALENT and not because you happen to be "HOT" lol I won't mention any words ...see she doesn't haven't to say much because her lifestyle says it all.So all those(broke) money flashing pigs can lay back.


Big up lady, your doing IT and you doing IT well.Your a great inspiring to young ladies like myself! 10/10 sister THE WORLD NEEDS MORE LADIES LIKE YOU! *A standing ovation*