They sleep with these men and in return live this life. Their excuses are a whole list of pathetic reasoning such as" my parents can't afford to give me this life so these men are more than willing to do so,why not".Honestly ladies what happened to loving and respecting yourself!what happened to paying your own bill? What happened to independence and pride? Taking care of yourself before allowing anyone else to do so!These men are OLD! FATHERS! HUSBANDS ranging from the ages of 28 and above,taking advantage of naïve girls. Infact I could call this daylight prostitution. Sexual activities with these men could lead to contracting STD's.The fact that they could get impregnated by these men and have to go back home! What do you say to your mother? That the father of your unborn baby is a 35year married Nigerian man? WOW! The lack of dignity and the loss of values!
I remember my mom telling me that there are 3things a girl can bring back home from varsity ,a degree, a baby or HIV/Aids...that time wasted can never be regained,and its so true...I'm not judging you! I'm not belittling you or trying to make you feel worthless but the life your pushing is disgusting and it clearly shows that you don't take pride in yourselves as women! Hard work,prayer,ambition and goals could give you this life,instead of chasing men chase dreams,instead of opening your legs open your books and switch on your brains,instead of spending dirty money make your own.
Remember this: being a whore and sleeping your way up may get you to the top but it won't keep you there for long!
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